Of all the holidays of the Jewish year, Purim stands out as the most light-hearted, high-spirited, almost frivolous of celebrations. Wear funny costumes with crazy hats. Have a party. Yes, its a mitzvah to hear the Megillah the Book of Esther read in the synagogue, but when you hear the name of the villain Haman you twirl those noisemakers to drown it out. Above all, have a drink.
Thats right, have a drink. And not just a formal lhyyim. The Talmud even recommends that a man should imbibe on Purim until he cannot distinguish between the words bless Mordecai and curse Haman! The Hebrew for not distinguishing is ad dlo yada literally until he does not know and that became the name of the annual Israeli Purim parade.
Like other such times of letting it all hang out, that experience can backfire. Of course, every Hebrew letter has a numerical value. Alef = 1, bet=2, gimel=3 yod=10 kuf=100, etc. Add up the value of the letters that spell out bless Mordecai baruch Mordechai, then the value of the letters in curse Haman arur Haman and you will come up with two identical totals: 502. Thats right, the number for a drunk driving violation!
So much for drinking on Purim. Have that party at home!
On another track, Purim celebrates a miracle, the one time when a threatened destruction of Jewry did not happen. One time when the Jews were alerted to defend themselves, and they succeeded. All because one young Jewish woman named Esther risked her life to plead the cause of her people to an unpredictable potentate. As the Megillah tells us, Mordecai urges her to take the chance, because as he says Dont think you will escape this danger in the kings house. If you keep silent at a time like this, relief and rescue can come to the Jews from somewhere else, but you and your family will perish, and who knows if just for such a time you arrived at royalty! Esther bites her lip and decides to face the king, but she charges Mordecai: Go and gather all the Jews in Shushan, and fast for me and pray for me for three days. I and my maids will fast too. Then I will go to the king, and if I perish, I perish. So Mordecai went and carried out what Esther asked him to do.
Want to know what the real miracle of Purim was? That was it. She said gather all the Jews. And he was able to do it. She didnt say gather all the Orthodox Jews. Nor all the Reform Jews. She didnt say gather all the Litvaks. Or the Galitzianer. She didnt say gather all the Bnai Brith members. Or the Ladies of Hadassah. She said gather all the Jews. And he did.
Now thats a miracle worth celebrating any time. Happy Purim!